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The One Thing You MUST Have to Save Your Marriage

During the last couple of months, I’ve noticed so many people pissed off at their spouses. Those who weren’t pissed were getting divorced. Really. Apparently, the divorce rate skyrockets around the holidays. Now, if you haven’t already thrown your spouse overboard (and I hope you haven’t), here’s a sure-fire technique for getting your marriage back […]

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What to Do When Your Spouse is Acting Up? Try This

Lately, I’ve been getting lots of comments like “Help! My spouse is driving me nuts! I can’t take it anymore!” So today, I’d like to offer a simple solution. (Simple, but not necessarily easy.) When your spouse starts agitating—complaining, being mean, or just plain driving you nuts—try this: Turn toward your spouse instead of away […]

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My little fly-fishers, the people who do really matter. (And yes, it was as cold as it looks. Rocky Mountain National Park just weeks ago. While it was 70 here in Boulder. Sheesh.)

What are You Avoiding, and Why?

I often write about the importance of taking care of yourself first—that way, you’ll have enough energy to take care of your loved ones. So I should know this better than anyone, right? Yeah, right. Except for when life gets really, really busy and everything swirls into one crazy-fast ball, and before you know it—boom!—you’ve […]

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This is what my backyard looked like this morning after a new foot of snow. Would you believe I even shoveled a path out for the dog?

How to Take Back Your Power and Dig Out of Your Resentment (One Shovelful at a Time)

Lately, I’ve been getting a lot of pleas for help around this whole resentment thing. Yesterday, two women wrote me complaining that their husbands weren’t there for there emotionally or financially during some intense life challenges. And then there was the man who asked for advice after his wife physically and emotionally distanced herself from […]

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