I’ve spent the last two weeks at the hospital, caring for a loved one. Here’s what I’ve learned: It’s always easier to blame someone or something else for whatever went wrong. Blaming solves nothing. Most of the shit we worry about doesn’t really matter. Love, love and more love. That’s where it’s at, folks. When [...]
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If you live in Colorado, you already know how crazy it is to live in a wildfire zone. If you live anywhere else but happen to catch the news, you already know how hellish this month has been, with at least 3 major fires currently burning around the state. There’s the catastrophic Colorado Springs/Waldo Canyon [...]
Check Out My Majority United Interview
Just wanted to share this fun interview I did with The Majority United: Empowering Women to Unite and Mobilize last night. Bettyjean Kling was my awesome interviewer, and I had a blast talking to her about everything under the sun. She’s doing some pretty cool stuff with her show, I have to say, and she’s [...]
Book Giveaway: Strip Off Your Fear
To celebrate Laura and her kick-ass reemergence into a new, more positive world, I’m giving away a free copy of Betsy Talbot’s Strip off Your Fear: Slip Into Something More Confident. I’ve been a big fan of Betsy and Warren’s Married With Luggage blog ever since a friend turned me on to them and I [...]
Join Us for This Awesome Adventure Records CD Release Party!
Check out what my honey-bunny’s been up to lately: pulling together this kick-ass compilation of local music! You probably didn’t know about Ken’s alter ego, did you? Well, it rocks. He rocks. He’s been running Adventure Records for 10 years now, ever since he moved to Colorado and saw a) what awesome musicians we have [...]
Thanks for the First Year
Don’t worry–I’m not stopping just because we’re close to hitting the one-year mark! I’m just taking a moment to celebrate what we’ve created so far. Read on: When I started this blog close to a year ago, I thought of it as a fun way of airing my marital grievances while Ken and I worked [...]
Merry Christmas, Take 2
Merry Christmas to all the Serbs, Russians, Greeks and any other Eastern Orthodox followers out there! That’s right–we celebrate Christmas on January 7th. When I was a kid, having two Christmases was definitely one of my favorite things about being Serbian. My kids, as you might guess, are also enjoying this bounty. Although this morning [...]
Quote of the Day
Here’s a little motivation for those of you with New Year resolutions: The symbolic meaning of the sacrament of Marriage is that one must be in union with one’s own personality and spirit first. After one has a clear inner understanding of oneself, one can create a successful intimate partnership. (Caroline Myss, Anatomy of the [...]
Making Our Dreams Come True
I’ve had this theme song from Laverne & Shirley stuck in my head for the past few days. Talk about dating myself! But the song’s so catchy and so friggin positive that I had to share it with you. Yes, yes, I’m a dork, although I like to think of myself as a rather hip, [...]
All the Single Ladies
You’ve got to read this great Atlantic article by Kate Bolick, “All the Single Ladies.” A reader sent it to me, and wow, was I glad she did. I debated trying to rip the thing apart, but with my current slow-mo brain, that would probably take me three to four months to tackle. Which would [...]
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