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Hiding Behind Our Children (or Our Work)

Hiding Behind Our Children (or Our Work)

After Gabriel was born, I was so damn exhausted that I couldn’t finish a sentence, much less carry on a conversation.  I mean, I was still wiped from when Nico entered the picture, and now that I had a 2.5 year-old and newborn to juggle, I was a blathering mess. Gabriel wasn’t the easiest baby, [...]

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How My Week of Extreme Self Care Turned into The One-Day Escape Hatch

How My Week of Extreme Self Care Turned into The One-Day Escape Hatch

I ran into my neighbor yesterday, one of those wonderful folks who helped me out a few weeks ago, when I hit the wall.  And then bounced off.  Before being run over by a truck. You get the picture. Anyway, seeing her reminded me of a promise I’d made to myself during that crazy time: [...]

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Parental Failure #46

Parental Failure #46

(Part 2 of a 3-part series) So now that I’ve talked about the not-so-clear link between money and happiness, let me show you how badly I’ve blown it as a parent.  Especially in terms of teaching any lessons of value to my kids. Because what’s really gotten me all worked up around here is the [...]

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Put On Your Own Oxygen Mask First

The other day, I was talking to Nico’s preschool teacher when she told me that she used to be a musician.  And by the sound of it, a pretty accomplished one.  She quit because the long hours and travel were too hard on her body (as if taking care of 3, 4 and 5-year-olds aren’t?). [...]

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Oh, the R Word

The other day, I read an article that made me stop and think (ha! actually think! good one, Tanja!).  Even more exciting than that, it inspired me to, gasp, do the suggested exercises. Which is pretty impressive, considering the snail’s pace I’m moving at these days. Subtitled “The traits you dislike (and admire) in others [...]

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