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9 Steps to Heal Your Resentment and Reboot Your Marriage9 Steps to Heal Your Resentment and Reboot Your Marriage

This book has really saved my marriage! It’s a short read packed with useful information, and I highly, highly recommend it! If it saved my marriage, I’m sure it can save yours, too. — E.R.

Wow — I wish I’d read this much, much sooner!! I’ve had this book for a few months and just got around to reading it. It was a quick read (cover to cover during my daughter’s morning nap) but was packed with clear, good ideas gleaned from the author’s personal experience and numerous other good sources on relationships. This provided the gentle nudge I needed to refocus on getting professional help for lingering postpartum depression, recommit to a good habit of daily meditation and exercise, and frame some healthy conversations with my husband. This is now my top recommendation for a helpful resource for new moms (or dads) dealing with the inevitable changes that parenthood brings to relationships, as well as for anyone who’s committed enough to their relationship to read a short book and give it’s suggestions a try. And take my advice to give it a try sooner, not months and months later like I did.  abyers

Save Your Marriage 

Resentful? Feeling frustrated and irritated with your spouse? Wondering if you’re headed for divorce?

You’re not alone.

After her blog post on marital resentment went viral, hundreds of thousands of readers wrote to Tanja Pajevic, asking for advice. Almost all of them thought they were headed toward divorce.

But Pajevic knew it didn’t have to be that way. Her own rebooted marriage was proof, so she decided to create a fun, easy-to-read cheat sheet to share what she’d learned during five years of research and plenty of real-life trial and error—a CliffsNotes for rebooting your marriage.

In 9 simple steps, you’ll learn how to:

  • release your resentment,
  • communicate more clearly,
  • rekindle the romance in your marriage, and
  • create a marriage that’s right for you.

You’ll also learn how to:

  • break old, painful patterns,
  • create time for yourself (as well as the hobbies you once loved),
  • bring a sense of freedom back into your life,
  • release guilt once and for all, and
  • create a life full of meaning and joy.

A quick-and-dirty guide to fixing your marriage, 9 Steps to Heal Your Resentment and Reboot Your Marriage is packed with simple, effective tools that really work. See why hundreds of thousands of people have joined Pajevic’s Reboot This Marriage movement.

More 5-Star Reviews:

Lots of Great Ideas in Short, Easy to Read Book

This was super easy to read and had a lot of great tips. A couple of the ideas in this book made me completely rethink my approach to parenting and marriage. This is a great read for any parent of young kids who would like some new ideas on keeping yourself and your family happy and your marriage strong. —Rosalie

The book that finally made a difference!

Even better than I expected! I’ve read a lot of marriage self-help books over the years, and so far, this one’s my favorite…. a great little book. I’d definitely recommend it for anyone struggling with their resentment. It’s already helped me. –Anonymous

Worth a lot more than $3.99!

This book is giving me a lot of tools for dealing with [my resentment] and I feel a lot more hopeful than I have in a long time. I wish I’d read this a long time ago, it would have saved me a lot of heartache. –Anonymous

Well Written & Insightful

Fantastic read! Tanja has a great way of giving the readers digestible chunks of information and keeping the mood light & fun. I’d definitely recommend reading this. —Emily O

Five Stars

Lots of great ideas. I wish I had found earlier.  –Steve

Best Band-Aid for healing OLD WOUNDS!

Surely is helping our marriage. Easy reading, down to earth! Thank you! –Paulani

Ideas that actually work!

I’ve been following this writer for a while on her blog, and was really excited to hear she was finally coming out with this book! She’s one of my favorite bloggers and has given me all sorts of great tips over the years, so I knew this book would be good. I’ve already implemented a few of her tips and it’s already helped! I even got my husband to read it and we’re starting to make some real headway. –Jane

It’s About Time!

Finally, a marriage book for men. Worth your time and money. –HD

Five Stars

Practical down to earth suggestions written in supportive and caring style. –Sandy

Useful and easy-to-implement ideas

This is a very helpful book! –Dad in the World